Your wife is hiding something?

She is grumpy. all of sudden. when you check the calendar, nope, not PMS time just yet. So why, what's wrong? Is it me, the hubby or is it just the wife?

Most husbands, i repeat most, not all, will tend to choose to ignore these change of behavior, they assume that things will get back to norm in no time. Nope. not a right move guys. This so-called self-centered moves only make the situation worsen.

So whats the deal actually?

There are various reasons for that. Be it she's tired of the house chores, plus if she's currently on 8-5 office job, that make it worse. But bear in mind it is not necessarily a career-minded wife only holds this grumpy issue, i put a safe bet that full-time housewives too always tend to experience with this kind of emotional roller coaster. And it only goes more bad if this particular group of housewives have had experienced working life before..

Ideally, wife will expect husbands to hold their hands and look right through their eyes and ask them :honey, what is wrong? ( ok ok i watched too much romantic movies, blerghhhh ). This whole thing ive described above seldom takes place in Asian community. This I will elaborate in my other entries, hahaha since the focus now is why is that grumpy and bossy mood suddenly, whats wrong wife? What is it that you are hiding?

Most of the time none. Yea, nada! nothing. We are so busy with the house chores, kids, wiping the table, kids having their meals, wipe the table again, picking up toys n restack them for 5 cycles minimum daily..That we eventually forgot that we are just plain mothers, wives that need our own break as well. Plus when u husbands came home and do not even bother to ask us how are we for the day, assuming that everything's balanced out..nope, i'm not leashing on my dear sweet hubby, these are example of situations that I've witnessed, personally.

Or perhaps husbands, your wife sudden change of behaviour might be because she found that you, yeah you had texted your ex asking how's her dad doing? while she, yeah your wife knows that you are 'dying' to actually know how is she, yeah ur ex is doing in her life..hahah.. go figure it out!